To really fall in love takes a year
June 14th, 2007 by 
Eric
Love at first sight is “another issue”, but LOVE, with capital awake with time.
British Scientifics have determined that real love between couples emerges at the twelfth month of relationship as a result of passion, intimacy and commitment balance. According to this fact, the first sight love doesn’t exist.
According to the report submitted by the experts team of the Bath University in England, studied love relationships among six months and the team concluded that mature and lasting love is barely impossible to awake from a casual encounter or from a relationship of less than a year.
Their study is based on the explanation that love is a reaction of brain produced by certain chemical stimulus which is responsible for passion, but its effects last a maximum of two years, and then the brain return to a normal condition. This study proves first sight love doesn’t exist and contradict the reality of lot of couples.
There are different kinds of love, like romantic and first sight, which in most cases don’t last over ten years, therefore it would be wrong to expect the romantic love a couple proclaim last forever. This feeling (love) has many levels and transformations.
When some people don’t feel romanticism anymore they think love is over and decide to divorce or look for another partner. This feeling is multiple and complex. Love can change or even end, but without any reason or deadline. The lack of communication and attention of both could be a reason to diminishing or even disappearing of love.
A person knows that what he/she feels is real love when he/she undergoes a full feeling. He/she is comfortable and happy with the other person in every aspect of his/her life. Also has the capacity to recognize when love is over.
Sometimes we forget perfect person doesn’t exist and we must not spend our life looking for that soul mate. In a relationship, one is complement of another.
